It’s easy to give ourselves a hard time because the dreams we have are not manifesting, writes Sonia Friedrich. As we near the end of 2014 do you remember the goals and dreams you had at the beginning of this year? How close did you come to reaching them? Alignment, not action, Friedrich writes, is the key.
This year I’ve manifested many of my dreams – and I still have many to achieve before the year is out. Most recently, last week in fact, our manifesting powers were put to the test when we had to find a new home within a week.
We’d been given ample notice to move out of our house overlooking Tallows Beach in Byron Bay. Three months in fact. However a series of events occurred that took our focus away from even thinking about moving or looking for a place to live. My partner’s father needed to move into respite, which turned into fulltime aged care, and within weeks he was in hospital with pulmonary oedema. My partner managed all the paper work and was with him and her mother while he was in hospital. It was an emotionally exhausting time. Over two weeks his kidney and heart failure did not respond to treatment. Sadly and unexpectedly, at this time, he passed away. By the time we both landed back home, we were exhausted.
A few weeks later we were still both tired and grief-stricken. However, the one thing we said to each other was “There is no need to panic. If we check in each day and say what is true we will be o.k. This is a critical time for us because we are making life choices and we need to make the right one.” We began looking at properties on the internet. In Byron Bay this time of year there are a handful at best because everyone wants to holiday let for a greater return – it’s the same reason we are being asked to leave the wonderful property we have rented for the last three years. I knew we only needed one property and when anyone told me how difficult this would be to find, immediately I said to myself, “No it won’t. We only need one place. I’ve done this before. I’ll do it again. In fact last time I did it three days before Christmas.” Not once did I ever entertain the negative thought of others or let this enter my vibration.
Focusing on the positive helps eliminate the negative
The key was that I believed with all my being what I was saying.
Within one week we found two places with potential. One further away from where we wished to be. The other popped up a day later. We knew this property and it was literally 500 metres from where we live at the moment. Occasionally I would pass the woman who owned the property on my morning walk. We’d never spoken before, but the morning after I’d seen her property was available I thought to myself that if I was meant to see her I would. I was on the board walk watching over Mount Warning for quite some time and when I turned around, she was five metres away from me! If I hadn’t turned around at that moment I wouldn’t have seen her. She arranged for us to see the property that afternoon. Even with our cat and her no pets policy she was happy for us to be the new tenants. We handed over a deposit the next day.
Align and manifest your dreams
For many of us we have had an incredibly busy year. The dreams we were certain to reach eluded us yet they are still our dreams. When you dream something from the deep yearning of your soul you are meant to live it. If something you really want hasn’t happened now is the perfect time to take a look at your life and discover why. Your energy and all that busyness is focused in the wrong direction. Know your pattern and work out how you spend your time so you can avoid being stuck.
- Alignment not action is what is required
- You are a vibrational being living in a vibrational universe. When your vibration aligns with what you want then dreams can manifest
- You can help or hinder this process
- How you feel tells you if you are helping or hindering this process. This is the KEY. You can tell when something is not aligned almost immediately. When you say or think something and your feel a contraction in your body, at a fundamental level you do not believe your dream is possible and therefore you are not aligned with what you say or think. Make sure you really do want your dream!
- You can interrupt bad thoughts or experiences and choose a better feeling place that gives you relief. Doing this will change your vibrations and help you live in alignment.
- It gets easier and easier with practice.
- Do what makes you feel good.
- When you feel true you are aligned and manifest what you want your world will change before your eyes.
Change your vibration and you change your life.
Sonia Friedrich is a mentor to business executives who wish to change their life. She has recently released 11 Steps to Healing – For Multi-Millionaires & Business Owners. Visit www.soniafriedrich.com for more.
