» law of attraction https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au Byron Bay & Beyond Mon, 21 Mar 2016 23:07:08 +0000 en hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.0.10 Chinese New Year of the Fire Monkey https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/chinese-new-year-fire-monkey/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=chinese-new-year-fire-monkey https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/chinese-new-year-fire-monkey/#comments Mon, 08 Feb 2016 20:45:20 +0000 https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/?p=5527 From Kim Falconer’s 11th House Blog Welcome New Year of the Fire Monkey! The second New Moon after the solstice 2016 marks Chinese New...

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From Kim Falconer’s 11th House Blog

Welcome New Year of the Fire Monkey!

The second New Moon after the solstice 2016 marks Chinese New Year of the Fire Monkey and oh boy, what a chang-a-roony.

NEW MOON IN 19 AQUARIUS Feb 8/9
LA – Monday 6:39am
NY – Monday 9:39am
LON – Monday 2:39pm
SYD – Tuesday 1:39am

This is the year of the Cheeky Monkey. A blockbuster shift, moving from two years of Wood element (Green Horse and Green Sheep) to Red Fire Monkey.

Contemplative becomes assertive.

Reflective become proactive.

Stuck becomes rockets launching, fire works and who cares about the slippery slope!

Think of it a bit like moving back to Aries after two years of Taurus, back to Leo after Virgo, back to Sagittarius after Capricorn. From Earth to Fire means we’ve tilled the soil, planted the seed and now make room because HEY-O they are going to grow!

Monkey years have an abundance of energy, enthusiasm and spark. In FIRE, all the MORE dynamic.

This sign shares some of the intellectual and quick-silver qualities of western astrology’s sign of Virgo including a love of friends, witty dialog and analytical capabilities. It’s mutable, and again, with added fire, think Sagittarius enthusiasm.

Monkeys years are about lofty challenges and high sighted goals–we actually thrive when they have something way out there to reach for. With a hefty dose of curiosity, Monkey years bring a deal of information so we can turn what we learn into wonderful stories we can share with others.

Our monkey year is all about communicate–be it through phone, internet or face to face. The main thing is we all feel connected. Social, sensitive and full of life, Monkey years can turn trouble into fun, gloom into a sunny day, low returns and results into high octane YES!

Happy New Moon and Chinese New Year of the Monkey! Set sky high intentions! Let us know how it’s all going in the comments!

AriesARIES: Chinese New Year of the Monkey is a social time with plenty of goals and fuel for the fire. Friends mean the world to you and come through with great support and insight. Seek success with confidence, but note the difference between a goal and an agenda. You don’t make it happen. You let it . . .

TaurusTAURUS: 2016 is all about your career, mission and connection to others. You’ll want to be productive on a practical level as well as show the world a whole new, playful, carefree side. Think of it as a time to get yourself ‘correct.’ That means recognize your worthiness, see your perfection, love yourself unconditionally.

GeminiGEMINI: Monkey year is an adventure for those born under the sign of the twins. Think expansion, excitement, travel via mind, body, spirit, and a whole lot of dreams come true. Your best approach? Use the power of the ‘pre-thanks.’ The strength of your words, written and spoken, blossoms before your eyes!

CancerCANCER: The year of the Monkey invites you to be an energy connoisseur, to pay attention to the play of power between you and others, friends, associates and love interests alike. That means you tune into what you are flowing, without judgement, so you can line up with what you want. Think awareness and fun!

LeoLEO: Single, mated, looking, hiding, complicated or no strings, 2016 is about getting your love life really happening. This opportunity is pure gold, so put some energy into activating the dream come true relationship you always wished for but never quite manifested. Clean house, inner and outer. Company’s coming!

VirgoVIRGO: Whether you want to drop a few extra pounds, gain muscle-lose fat, get into your best shape ever, heal an ongoing issues or boost your magical manifesting skills, the year of the Monkey supports it big time! This is how it works. Get your vibration, AKA your thoughts, there first. Drop judgment!

LibraLIBRA: Year of the Monkey holds a special place in the heart of Libra, one that will bring forth a pot of gold you had no idea was waiting. Probably didn’t see this rainbow coming! But here it is, abundance city! All you have to do is activate ‘Life is Good,’ and you’re following the creative magic. Holy wow!

ScorpioSCORPIO: You have a lighthearted connection with the year of the Monkey and to honor it, think about the one thing you really want but are too (afraid, busy, denying, ignoring, projecting on to others) to create. This is you chance to awaken true desires and make them so, by putting your focus there. You go for what you want. Period!

SagittariusSAGITTARIUS: All forms of communication lighten up in the year of the Monkey, amplifying everything from dissertation skills to writing, speaking and publishing. It’s ‘spread the word time’, and all you have to do is feel worthy. Boost self-esteem and positive self-talk for major 2016 joy, happiness and success!

CapricornCAPRICORN: Monkey years can amp up your goals and hone your focus, making 2016 a fast track to abundance. How to fuel the engine? Re-think your relationship to FUN. Seriously! The motto is, as long as you’re having a good time, there’s no such thing as wasting time! Play. Delight. Take up a hobby. Muse. Cruise.

AquariusAQUARIUS: The New Moon in Aquarius heralds the year of the Monkey with personal significance for Water-bearers. This is a powerhouse year, one in which you get to decide how things go. It’s all about your perspective so start fresh, drop judgements and open you mind. Motto: There is no spoon. Now go after what you want.

piscesPISCES: The year of the Monkey can be just the fun and fulfillment you’ve been hanging out for. Are you ready? With the New Moon in your solar 12th house, it’s all about ‘the dream’. Feel free to muse your way through the year because the power of transformation lies in you ability to relax and chill out! Allow, allow, allow!

Happy Chinese New Year xxxKim!

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Welcome to the New Moon in Sagittarius, bringing in the spirit of adventure and excitement. This is the perfect time to set new intentions that take you places you have never been before. Fresh horizons! New Moon Scopes from Kim Falconer’s 11th House Blog.

NEW MOON @19 SAGITTARIUS
L.A. – Friday 2:29 am
NEW YORK – Friday 5:29 am
LONDON – Friday 10: 29 am
SYDNEY – Friday 9:29 pm

The New Moon always represents new beginnings, fresh starts. Look to where 19 degrees of Sagittarius is in your natal chart and set strong intentions there for the rest of the month. This is where you amp up self support and enthusiasm and let go of what isn’t working.

Yes, this is the house that Saturn is in right now, or about to be, so there is an undertone of serious housecleaning. Use this to your advantage. Accept that what is going on in this area of life really is important to you and brainstorm ways to experience it to the max.

Making as little as a 1% improvement can change everything!

If you need support here, start with What Obstacles?, Zen and the Zodiac and The Astrology of Relief. And finally, If you have Sagittarius/Gemini intercepted in your natal chart, there is all the more focus on that ‘hidden’ sign. Revel. Release. Rejoice!

Happy New Moon!

AriesARIES - This new moon is optimal energy for going beyond the familiar boundaries of life. Visit a place you’ve never been. Taste a new food. Think new thoughts. We cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.~Andre Gide

TaurusTAURUS - There is no point in ‘conserving energy’ or going into miser mode. Qi is not a commodity you can ever run out of. Give until your heart’s content. Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.~Buddha

GeminiGEMINI- It could feel like you ‘need’ to make a relationship decision but really you have to get in touch with what feels best to you. Want a quick way to make a choice? Write down everything you can think of that is GOOD about each option & then see how you feel… ~Andrea Sholer

CancerCANCER- This new moon could be a bit of a forest/trees situation. You are looking at the fine details when the real beauty is in perspective. Relationships and workmates will particularly benefit from you stepping back. You are seeing that which you are intending. ~Abraham Hicks

LeoLEO - Any romantic/creative hiatus will ease, putting you on the path to the creative connections of your dreams. The best resource to tap into, and trust, your inner guidance (not the collective opinion). Everything you see on earth is made from one original substance, out of which all things proceed.~Wallace. D. Wattles

VirgoVIRGO - If you’re waiting for the right furniture, the right lawn, the right address, the right partner, the right pet, the right job before you get happy, the boat has sailed. Find your excitement, now. Happiness depends more on the inward disposition of mind than on outward circumstances. ~Benjamin Franklin

. LibraLIBRA - Bright ideas seem far-fetched when you brainstorm them with others, but keep at it. What you conceive of today will blossom brilliantly tomorrow! If we all worked on the assumption that what is accepted as true were really true, there would be little hope of advance. ~Orville Wright

ScorpioSCORPIO - If you’ve hit a rough patch when it comes to money, job or career, use this time to reassess the charge. Can you find a better thought? No pessimist ever discovered the secret of the stars, or sailed to an uncharted land, or opened a new doorway for the human spirit. ~Helen Keller.

SagittariusSAGITTARIUS-This is your new moon, and your solar return, the most powerful time of the year. The intentions you set now must reflect your heart’s desire. In this way, you pave the future. You are your deepest, driving desires. As is your desire, so is your will. As is your will, so is your deed. As is your deed, so is your destiny. ~Upanishad

CapricornCAPRICORNTime to loosen your grip on ‘reality’ so you can open your mind to the next creative step. Get to the place where you can dream and believe. That’s where it all begins. Then, do the impossible. We have been taught to believe that negative equals realistic and positive equals unrealistic. ~Susan Jeffers

AquariusAQUARIUSRelax. You have no idea what you’re missing while you put effort into piecing the world together. More will happen in a moment of peace than years of forced action. The state of least excitation of consciousness is the field of all possibilities. ~ Maharishi Mahesh Yogi

piscesPISCESSelf inventory is instructional as long as you use it holistically. If you see a habit to change, do so, but appreciate what it was that lead you to noticing, or developing it, in the first place. A person of genius makes no mistakes. Their errors are volitional and are the portals of discovery. ~James Joyce

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Happy New Moon, Everyone!  xxxKimmy

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You can expect a burst of creativity with the Leo aligned to Venus writes Kim Falconer…

Re-blogged from Kim Falconer’s 11th House Blog.

The Leo New Moon is upon us! Time to celebrate heartfelt feelings, creative expression, individuality, arts and performance, play, fun, romance and kids!

NOTE: 21 degrees of a fixed sign is considered a ‘critical degree’. Even though this New Moon is well aligned to Venus, Eros (exact at 21 Leo) and Uranus, expect things to ‘come to a point.’ This can mean you dump a toleration, speak out when you have held your tongue, or even have a bit of a hissy-fit to clear the air. Expect things to move forward more evenly once you do.

New Moon 21 Leo 30′

LA – Friday – 7:54 am
NY – Friday – 10:54 am
LON – Friday – 3:54 pm
SYD – Saturday – 00:54 am

The New Moon falls into the Mars/Aries decante of Leo:

20 to 29 59′ Leo is the Mars decanate. It increases aggressive and assertive powers. Apt to be impetuous and quick to act. Generous, flamboyant and needs independence. Knows what they want and how to get it. Strong romantic intentions.

Sounds fun!

Remember, Leo represents the vitality of the fiery Sun—bold, commanding, animated. It conducts energy at a higher rate than any other sign, accounting for its enthusiasm, spirit and zest for life. The natural seat of Leo is the fifth house, ruling anything that makes us feel special, unique and creative—children, artistic endeavors, literary works, dance, music, drama, love affairs and speculation.

The Sun oversees individuality, healing, vital force, identity, purpose and destiny. He symbolizes creative expression, power, courage and authority—the place where thoughts turn into actions, and deeds determine the self-worth of the individual.

Where we find Leo in the horoscope is where we need to feel distinct, special and artistic. We want to be in the limelight in some way, affirming our value, worth and merit. The fixed nature of this sign implies tenacity through certitude, giving Leo a reputation for immovable determination. The sights are always set on the future and Leo has no problem imagining how things might be.

Where is this New Moon happening for you? What intentions will you set there?

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Lion’s Return by   Michael Parkes

Reference for the houses:

The meanings of the houses are deep and rich with metaphorical and literal content but here is a quick list of key words to get you started.

1st house – Appearance, personality traits, outlook on life
2nd house – $$$, resources, talents, peace of mind
3rd house – Teaching, learning, writing, talking, connecting
4th house – Home, family, ancestors, emotional ground
5th house – Creative expression, offspring (books/kids etc), romance
6th house – Health, pets, daily routine, employment, magic
7th house – Socially significant relationships, contracts
8th house – Sex, death, taxes, shared resources, trust
9th house – New horizons, travel, beliefs, WWW
10th house – Career, mission, profession, public relations
11th house – Friends, goals for the future, groups
12th house – Unconscious, dreams, giving and receiving, meditative states

Here is a quick ‘to do’ list to spark more ideas:

  •  Play
  •  Dance
  •  Laugh
  •  Sleep in
  •  individuate
  •  Finger paint
  •  Adopt a kitten
  •  Get creative
  •  Enjoy the drama
  •  Go out to dinner
  •  Practice more self-love
  •  Play music, sing, draw, sketch, write, perform

GoodVibeAstroD52cR06bP01ZL-Hoover6b_smlHappy New Moon Everyone!

xx Kim

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Re-blogged rom Kim Falconers’s 11th House Blog

Astro-LOA Flash: Today is the final, exact, Uranus-Pluto square, though this energy doesn’t just go poof tomorrow. To learn more about this contact that’s been around for years now, listen to the January Call on the Free Astro-LOA page at GoodVibeAstrology.com. We’ll be discussing the final contact live on Tue/Wed – on Talkshoe – Free Call for March. But the Ur/Pl square isn’t all that’s happening!

There is also the upcoming solar (new moon) eclipse at the tail end of the zodiac – 29° Pisces 27′. It’s not only conjunct the fixed star Scheat in the constellation of Pegasus, the degree itself is noted as one of ‘expiation.’ Think: endings that release resistance, creating fresh openings to jump back into life in a new way.

If there ever was a let go eclipse, this one is it. You release everything and experience your own, personal renaissance.

Eclipse/New Moon Times for March 20th – 29° Pisces 27′

LA – Friday – 1:37 am
NY – Friday – 4:37 am
LON – Friday – 8:37 am
SYD – Friday – 7:37 pm

Aspects to the Eclipse (the Sun-Moon-Node conjunction) include:

Sesquiquadrate Jupiter – expanded vision
Trine Saturn – focus and grounding
Parallel Chiron – audacity to attempt
Quintile Pluto – transforming ideals
Trine Juno – empowered relatioships
Sextile Ceres – connection to vitality and self-worth
Semi-sextile Vesta – strength to follow your dreams

Eclipses can be activated 30 days before or 30 days after the event. The most enlightening place to look in your chart is the HOUSE that the eclipse is in. Turn your attention to that area of life, release resistance there, and pre-pave your heart’s desires.

Here are some tips, sign by sign.

AriesARIES: The focus of this eclipse is on the inner world of dreams, spiritual connection and synchronicity. You want to bring awareness here. Initiate projects that hold true value to you, not just opportunities for commerce or survival. Instead of building a big fire and standing back, build a small fire and step close.

TaurusTAURUS: Whatever you’ve been brewing in the realm of groups and new associations, move forward now with gentle warmth and confidence. You’re friends are poised to support and nurture you from all sides! If it’s authentic, it will sing. If you need extra funds or ideas, there is a particular other who’s hanging out to be asked.

GeminiGEMINI: This is all about you and your career. It’s set to expand in ways you hadn’t dreamed possible so release resistance to success, now. This is your chance to experience the creative genius you are. If trepidation comes up, ie any feelings of unworthiness at the 11th hour, relax. Deep breaths. Above all else, don’t be afraid to bloom.

CancerCANCER: Whatever long distance trip, arrangement or relationship you have going in your life, set clear and precise intentions for what you REALLY want. The theme of the month is expansion and new horizons. This can be literal or metaphorical. The important thing to note is that your world is about to get bigger! Get used to it!

LeoLEO: This is a time to keep a secret and contain a project all while meeting someone eye to eye. A desire is going to go big very soon and right now you need to incubate like a smart mother hen. All this in the midst of intimacy and the need to connect with a deep and penetrating truth. Changes will have lasting effects! For now, tell no one.

VirgoVIRGO: Pisces new moon Eclipse is in your relationship sector give you a guardian angel when it comes to business or romantic commitments. There is a magical feeling in the air and you can use this rosy glow to tell a new story when it comes to your love life. Suddenly you are seeing others in their true, spiritual light. Be grounded with desires, and they manifest.

LibraLIBRA: The new moon eclipse in your house of health is perfect for setting intentions about the strength of the body, your power to express your will and the ways and means you accomplish what you want in life – from working for a living to deliberate creation. Feel the energy around you. Tune in and wield your magic! You have the tenacity now to make it work.

ScorpioSCORPIO: Creativity, romance and wide-eyed enthusiasm well up from your heart making this an eclipse to remember. Put your attention on what makes your feel special, artistic, open and sharing. Identify the ingredient that it takes to ‘make’ your day. There is more where than came from. You just have to realize it, and utilize it. Get out your pens, paints and brushes!

SagittariusSAGITTARIUS: Attention on your home, family and domestic affairs makes this new moon perfect for starting any repair or maintenance projects, but more than that, it’s a time to notice where you are expanding on an inner level. There is travel a foot. Doors open when you say ‘yes’ BEFORE the question is asked. Optimism abounds, so expand your vision. It’s doable!

CapricornCAPRICORN: What is it you want to teach, learn, study or research? Something powerful is stirring along with the opportunity to get involved. It’s not only about reaching for personal goals. It’s about connecting to deeper spiritual links as well. Identify the direction you want to go and settle for nothing less. Write, record, post, proclaim. Express!

AquariusAQUARIUS: It’s not always easy to change horses in the middle of the stream but if there is a sudden desire for a course correction, do not hesitate. This new moon eclipse boosts your ability to sense true values and change up where need be. The true secret to a happy life is living authentically. Check in, listen and know. You job is to be you.

piscesPISCES: The new moon eclipse in Pisces is a special time of year where you can feel more connected, more tapped in, more alive. From there you have the ability to add meaning and purpose to your life. There might be a bit of a dreamy quality to how you see yourself and choices seem to be more glamorous than practical. Let your heart be the guide. Set intentions for the upcoming year! Happy solar return!

Have a wonderful Eclipse everyone! xKim

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A morning walk turns into a journey of discovery for Verandah Magazine’s resident psychic and medium Liz Winter.

One morning, in a reflective mood, I walking  down the street during the mundane, routine hours of a working day – I could almost say my body walked my soul, when I began to study the faces that passed by me.

When you really start to look at the people passing you, it’s an interesting process, and, sad to say, there not that many happy faces.  Some people passed me by with faces like stone, some had paper thin tight smiles, others seemed so distant and vague it was as if there was  no one home.

But then I saw a woman kiss a dog and a mother bend down to comfort her crying child…and suddenly I had a thought: Do we all wonder at some point in our lives, who is going to love us?

When we know we are loved our world brightens, when we know we are loved, our challenges seem easier, when we know we are loved we find strength we didn’t know we had. But can we depend on others to love us at all times? Unconditional love is rare, even from parent to child.  So where can we turn to for those inevitable occasions when we feel unloved, unwanted or misunderstood?

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My love of spiritual matters has often been my source of love when human love seems to have temporarily deserted me.  Feeling a warmth from the ‘other side’ in a form of a sign, a vision, a dream or a message has  been like a blanket of comfort more than once in my life.

However, as I’m ageing, and entering my ‘wise woman’ years, (I hope) it is clear to me that the most powerful love is self love. Self love, once you’ve connected to it, is always on tap and never lets you down.  Now, when I wake in the morning, I kiss my own shoulder, (because it’s easy to reach) hug my body and say to myself, ‘Liz, you are so special and you rock.’  Funnily enough, once we do own that self love, others seem to offer their love freely and frequently, which leads me to the inevitable conclusion so many people have written and spoken about – self love is a magnet.  In the manner of the Law of Attraction, you attract what you project.  If you project self-love more love will come.

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And the best thing?  You can love yourself anywhere, all the time, any time.  It takes very little effort once you’ve got started, it’s absolutely free and when you’re brimming with self-love you’ll be amazed at how everybody around you will feel happy in your company – even the passers-by in the street are likely to smile!

Here are some guidelines and tips I took from the Queen of self love – Louise Hay;

12 Commandments to help you learn how to love yourself:

Stop All Criticism.
Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

Forgive Yourself.
Let the past go. You did the best you could at the time with the understanding, awareness, and knowledge that you had. Now you are growing and changing, and you will live life differently.

Don’t Scare Yourself.
Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives you pleasure, and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.

Be Gentle and Kind and Patient.
Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone you really loved.

Be Kind to Your Mind.
Self-hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.

Praise Yourself.
Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.

Support Yourself.
Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.

Be Loving to Your Negatives.
Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So lovingly release the old negative patterns.

Take Care of Your Body.
Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need in order to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise do you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.

Do Mirror Work.
Look into your eyes often. Express this growing sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself while looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents while looking into the mirror. Forgive them, too. At least once a day, say, “I love you, I really love you!”

Love Yourself . . . Do It Now.
Don’t wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or find the new relationship. Begin now—and do the best you can.’                                Louise L Hay

There really is no need to wait for love to find you, it’s already there.

Liz Winter has been a medium and spiritual development teacher for over 25 years.  Liz is a Medium, Reiki Master/Healer, Angel Therapist, Spiritual Teacher, Author and Qualified Counsellor. To contact Liz go to her website: lizwinter

You can purchase Liz’s memoir from Amazon here: LoveofSpirit  You can read Barry Eaton’s review of Liz’s book here: verandahmagazine.following-path-spirit/

 

 

 

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Sheep, goat, ram or ewe, Happy Chinese New Year to you https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/welcome-chinese-new-year-sheep/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=welcome-chinese-new-year-sheep https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/welcome-chinese-new-year-sheep/#comments Thu, 19 Feb 2015 01:46:00 +0000 https://www.verandahmagazine.com.au/?p=2956 Chinese New Year falls on the NEW MOON @29 Aquarius L.A. – Wednesday – 3:47 pm NEW YORK – Wednesday – 6:47 pm LONDON...

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Chinese New Year of  the Sheep 2015


Chinese New Year falls on the NEW MOON @29 Aquarius
L.A. – Wednesday – 3:47 pm
NEW YORK – Wednesday – 6:47 pm
LONDON – Wednesday – 11:47 pm
SYDNEY – Thursday – 10:47 am

From Kim Falconer’s 11th House Blog

February 18/19th is Chinese New Year, the first new moon after the Solstice where the Chinese animal sign changes from Horse to the Sheep. Think “mare to ewe’ as all the Chinese animals are female. This is not the fiery ram of Aries in the Western Zodiac.

As the year of the Green Sheep begins, we enter a slower paced, more relaxed and introspective year. It’s a reflective, sensitive energy that brings plenty of opportunity to tune into feelings and leverage them for our own growth and awareness.

Below are the Astro-LOA sign by sign tips. Remember, if you are a Capricorn or Aquarius by the Western Zodiac, check your sign as Chinese New Year begins at a different time each year.

 

Rat: 1912, 1924, 1936, 1948, 1960, 1972, 1984, 1996, 2008

The Year of the Sheep is a subtle relief for Rat after the hustle and bustle of 2014 Horse, but you have to dial back a bit to enjoy it. This is the perfect time to re-think ideas, goals and desires for the future and launch them with a renewed and steady enthusiasm. And know, you have what it takes to Knock Their Socks Off as you pitch new projects or apply for a new job. This is a year to discover what you really want when if comes to relationship as well. Prepare to be surprised.

Ox: 1913, 1925, 1937, 1949, 1961, 1973, 1985, 1997, 2009

The year of the Sheep can bring contrast, challenging you to rise to the occasion and expand your awareness. The key is in knowing Life Is Good, no matter what is happening in the outer environment. This is your training ground, and when you’re asked to “give ‘em 20″ you’ll find yourself fitter and stronger than you first imagined. Confidence is up, because of this, you’re more empowered, vital and alluring. Travel or moving house brings spectacular results!

Tiger: 1914, 1926, 1938, 1950, 1962, 1974, 1986, 1998, 2010

In the year of the Sheep, Tiger can feel like there are too many choices that must be made, yesterday. Remember, sheep says relax and find some peace and ease. No need to chase your tail. If you don’t know what to do, trust there will be plenty of time to gain clarity. Romance shines a light as the year warms up so think about activating a Feeling Sexy vibration, of you’ve been to busy with other things. Look after the body with plenty of exercise too!

Rabbit: 1915, 1927, 1939, 1951, 1963, 1975, 1987, 1999, 2011

In the year of the Sheep, Rabbit will enjoy a more steady pace compared to the whirl of last year. You’ll also be in line for high success, so think about activating an “it’s Happening!” vibration. You don’t want your own reticence to hold you back. This is also a wonderful time for romance with a view to long-term partnership so reflect a bit on what your idea partnership looks like. You’re extra alluring now, and that amps your ability to attract money and finances as well. Awesome!

Dragon: 1916, 1928, 1940, 1952, 1964, 1976, 1988, 2000, 2012

In the year of the Sheep, Dragon has a burst of creative inspiration. It just pours out. The only hitch might be if you aren’t sure of your path, your purpose in life. If you’re shaky there, not to worry. This is a year for clarity and successful forward motion, though you don’t want to ‘push’ or try and make it happen. You want to relax. The greatest benefits are holidays, meditation, exercise and fitness and a good health regime. Activate the vibe of ‘Dream Vacation‘ for best results.

Snake: 1917, 1929, 1941, 1953, 1965, 1977, 1989, 2001, 2013

The year of the Sheep can mean snake is on the move. That’s home, business or relationships, you decide. The key is to be flexible, holding ideas lightly – basically Lightening Up. There could be resistance to the changes, great or small, and we know where that leads – to more of what is undesired. So relax, embrace and allow. This can be your Year of the Manfester, a time when thoughts become things at the speed of light. Are you ready to receive?

Horse: 1918, 1930, 1942, 1954, 1966, 1978, 1990, 2002, 2014

In the year of the Sheep, Horse finds her feet. Whatever hopes you had last year that have yet to materialize, they are rolling in steady now. 2015 is supportive right across the board – Self, relationship, creativity, career, family, health, finances. Basically, the good times really do roll in. You want to pre-pave for that because the freer your vibe, the more expansive the results. Single horses might want to activate New Love Interest. Committed, Get What You Want.

Sheep: 1919, 1931, 1943, 1955, 1967, 1979, 1991, 2003, 2015

Year of the Sheep brings some interesting contrast if you aren’t setting authentic goals and loving your life right here and now. Think of it as a year of self-discovery, and you might be somewhat surprised! First up, don’t be discouraged if Reality Disagrees with What You Want. It’s a temporary state of affairs. Any feelings of jealousy or competitiveness are only signs of something that is very important to you. Take the information and relax. Allow. Grass roots = Activate Health!

Monkey: 1920, 1932, 1944, 1956, 1968, 1980, 1992, 2004, 2016

The year of the Sheep holds as much promise for Monkey as you could ever want, but the kick off is a little shaky. Don’t let that stop you! Pre-pave your desired results by troubleshooting your efforts and un-kinking your vibe. It’s all about relaxing, allowing and floating downstream with peace and ease. If you are going at it tooth and nail, take a beat to re-think. The first few months of the year could lack momentum and clarity. That’s okay as it picks up. Make Peace with the Unknown.

Rooster: 1921, 1933, 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, 2017

The year of the Sheep is going to be fabulous for Rooster, especially in career and creative projects. You’ll want to pitch new ideas and projects with your whole heart, Activating Thriving Business and Filled Up/Sold Out. Business partnership are solid and lead to financial success. For personal relationships, you’ll want to have a clear idea of what you really want. It might be different than you imagined. Health increases with more attention of nutrition.

Dog: 1910, 1922, 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006

The year of the Sheep brings Dog a new career vibe full of enthusiasm, opportunity a creative advancement. The only hitch is the actual financial backing might be a little slower to arrive than hoped. You can help this along by Activating Money in the Bank. But not all your energy needs to be focused on work. Dog benefits by getting out and playing, afirming that Life is Good. Make sure plenty of exercise and good nutrition is part of the daily routine. You thrive out in nature!

Pig: 1911, 1923, 1935, 1947, 1959, 1971, 1983, 1995, 2007

The year of the Sheep brings dazzling romance to the single Pigs and a renewed delight to committed ones. All across the board, think Great Relationships. Career and finances are also looking up. The only area that might be neglected, because you’re so busy swooning in romantic bliss and raking in the money from your fabulous career, is your health. Be sure to Activate a Healthy Body, and enjoy good strong exercise and nutrition (as prescribe by your health care practitioner).

Happy Chinese New Year, of the Green Sheep, everyone.

Make it your best yet!

If you want to learn more about Astrology and the Law of Attraction, join us at GoodVibeAstrology.com

xxxKim

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 It’s easy to give ourselves a hard time because the dreams we have are not manifesting, writes Sonia Friedrich. As we near the end of 2014 do you remember the goals and dreams you had at the beginning of this year? How close did you come to reaching them?  Alignment, not action, Friedrich writes, is the key.

This year I’ve manifested many of my dreams – and I still have many to achieve before the year is out.  Most recently, last week in fact, our manifesting powers were put to the test when we had to find a new home within a week.

We’d been given ample notice to move out of our house overlooking Tallows Beach in Byron Bay. Three months in fact. However a series of events occurred that took our focus away from even thinking about moving or looking for a place to live. My partner’s father needed to move into respite, which turned into fulltime aged care, and within weeks he was in hospital with pulmonary oedema. My partner managed all the paper work and was with him and her mother while he was in hospital. It was an emotionally exhausting time. Over two weeks his kidney and heart failure did not respond to treatment. Sadly and unexpectedly, at this time, he passed away. By the time we both landed back home, we were exhausted.

A few weeks later we were still both tired and grief-stricken. However, the one thing we said to each other was “There is no need to panic. If we check in each day and say what is true we will be o.k. This is a critical time for us because we are making life choices and we need to make the right one.” We began looking at properties on the internet. In Byron Bay this time of year there are a handful at best because everyone wants to holiday let for a greater return – it’s the same reason we are being asked to leave the wonderful property we have rented for the last three years. I knew we only needed one property and when anyone told me how difficult this would be to find, immediately I said to myself, “No it won’t. We only need one place. I’ve done this before. I’ll do it again. In fact last time I did it three days before Christmas.” Not once did I ever entertain the negative thought of others or let this enter my vibration.

Focusing on the positive helps eliminate the negative

Focusing on the positive helps eliminate the negative

The key was that I believed with all my being what I was saying.

Within one week we found two places with potential. One further away from where we wished to be. The other popped up a day later. We knew this property and it was literally 500 metres from where we live at the moment. Occasionally I would pass the woman who owned the property on my morning walk.  We’d never spoken before, but the  morning after I’d seen her property was available I thought to myself that if I was meant to see her I would. I was on the board walk watching over Mount Warning for quite some time and when I turned around, she was five metres away from me! If I hadn’t turned around at that moment I wouldn’t have seen her. She arranged for us to see the property that afternoon. Even with our cat and her no pets policy she was happy for us to be the new tenants. We handed over a deposit the next day.

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Align and manifest your dreams

For many of us we have had an incredibly busy year. The dreams we were certain to reach eluded us yet they are still our dreams. When you dream something from the deep yearning of your soul you are meant to live it. If something you really want hasn’t happened now is the perfect time to take a look at your life and discover why. Your energy and all that busyness is focused in the wrong direction. Know your pattern and work out how you spend your time so you can avoid being stuck.

  1. Alignment not action is what is required
  2. You are a vibrational being living in a vibrational universe. When your vibration aligns with what you want then dreams can manifest
  3. You can help or hinder this process
  4. How you feel tells you if you are helping or hindering this process. This is the KEY. You can tell when something is not aligned almost immediately. When you say or think something and your feel a contraction in your body,  at a fundamental level you do not believe your dream is possible and therefore you are not aligned with what you say or think. Make sure you really do want your dream!
  5. You can interrupt bad thoughts or experiences and choose a better feeling place that gives you relief. Doing this will change your vibrations and help you live in alignment.
  6. It gets easier and easier with practice.
  7. Do what makes you feel good.
  8. When you feel true you are aligned and manifest what you want your world will change before your eyes.

Change your vibration and you change your life.

Sonia Friedrich is a mentor to business executives who wish to change their life. She has recently released 11 Steps to Healing – For Multi-Millionaires & Business Owners. Visit www.soniafriedrich.com for more.

 

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In Between Here and Not Here by Paul Bond

The New Moon in Virgo is perfect for bringing more ritual into the daily routine, amping up both ‘heart’ and ‘production’. It’s a time to appreciate what is working and feel compassion and reverence for all life, beginning with your own.

This New Moon chart also contains the long anticipated Mars – Saturn conjunction at 17 Scorpio. Think Luke Skywalker (Mars) and Obiwan Kenobi (Saturn). To learn more about this energy, listen to the GVA recording “Mars and Saturn Conjunction”).

NEW MOON @2 VIRGO
LA – Monday – 7:13 am
NY – Monday – 10:13 am
LON – Monday – 3:13 pm
SYD – Tuesday – 12:13 am

Virgo is about about skill development, and the rituals in life that are constantly creating and re-creating our experience of reality. It’s magic to the core that we can all access.

Think – ritual magic, new beginnings, initiation and awareness! You start creating habits that make life better. Now. Read your sun sign below, and the house where you find 2 degrees Virgo. It’s may point to specific ways you can create abundance and well being through ritual in your life.

Listen to the recorded call where Jeannette Maw and I talk about “The Power of Ritual” at GoodVibeAstrology in our Free Astro-LOA Page.

AriesARIES/6th house: The New Moon in your house of health is the perfect time to start supportive new habits in the realm of diet, exercise and daily ritual. Think of your body as your best friend. What do you feed her? How do you keep her fit and active? When do you let her rest? Play? Explore? Connect?

TaurusTAURUS/ 5th house: The creative and playful sphere of the heart is awakened at this New Moon. Consider what rituals you have in place around your artistic expression? Is it haphazard, random or so strict there’s no room to breathe? Set into motion some healthy ways to connect to your inner child. Play, and have fun.

GeminiGEMINI/ 4th house: The New Moon lights up your home, family and emotional security sector. What are you doing to feather your nest, metaphorically and literally? Ask how ritual can improve this area of life. Regular family dinners? Time with relatives that could use your expertise? Renewed Feng Shui in the home? De-clutter!

CancerCANCER/ 3rd house: This is the perfect time to create new habits around self-talk, verbal communication and written or spoken expression, teaching and leaning. Notice how you connect socially, around familiar, haunts then start putting more conscious awareness on your words. Try scripting it the way you want!

LeoLEO/ 2nd house: New Moon amps up your house of money, a representation of your inner core values and self-esteem. This is excellent for boosting feelings of self-worth and setting in place new habits of care, respect and generosity. Let go of any critical judgments and embrace the abundance of allowing. Fly free!

VirgoVIRGO/first house: This is your ‘birthday’ New Moon and ideal for starting any new project that has your ‘heart’s desire’ in it. Most likely, opportunities are rolling in. You get to pick your favorite and shower it with positive energy. The trick is to not become totally obsessed. Start a habit of balance in everything you do. Equilibrium.

LibraLIBRA/ 12th house: The New Moon in Virgo is your ‘Dream Moon’ as it activates your unconscious mind. Up comes all the buried treasures in the form of inspiration, epiphanies, synchronicities and head over heels love interests. Treat this like a preview of coming attractions. Nurture, respect, revel and enjoy!

ScorpioSCORPIO/ 11th house: The New Moon in the house of friends is a wonderful opportunity to bring healthy habits of connection into being. Your powers of discernment are heightened, helping you know intuitively which birds of a feather you want to flock with. Remember, to have a friend, be a friend. Spend some time there!

SagittariusSAGITTARIUS/ 10th house: Attention to detail and a feeling of new beginnings lights up your career sector. This is where you put new habits into place. If you’ve been overworking, pull back. If it’s been hard to focus, you practice new skills. As recognition and opportunities land, create the perfect balance of work and play.

CapricornCAPRICORN/ 9th house: This is your ‘Exploration Moon’ as a thirst for the unknown activates every cell in your body. What you thought was a closed door, a limitation or block, opens wide and you walk on through. The habit of open-mindedness can be developed now with very little effort. Easy breezy enlightenment time!

AquariusAQUARIUS/ 8th house: The Virgo New Moon is a chalice of overflowing opportunity where you create new habits around shared resources. This means anything from finances, money borrowed or loaned, creative projects and even intimate, erotic expression can take on new meaning in your life. Think Renaissance!

piscesPISCES/ 7th house: This is your ‘Relationship Moon’ where you can examine your personal one-to-ones and put into place more supportive, loving and caring habits. Old unconscious behaviors dissolve, replaced by mutual respect and reverence for life with another. Boundaries improve creating more room for unconditional love.

It takes 21 days to start a new habit. Let’s set fabulous intentions now!

Have a wonderful New Moon everyone! xKim

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